An Epistle From A Very Dear Friend

Dear Reader;

Grace to you, and peace from God our Father, through our Lord Jesus Christ!

Inspiration and Lessons are found just about everywhere you look. God surprises us by speaking to us through different avenues... It may be through the scripture, or it may be through a gorgeous sunset, or a ray of sunshine. This particular ray of sunshine came through a letter from a very dear friend. Margarete and I were classmates in High School, and today, several years later, we are brother and sister in Christ.

Her words convey great depth and insight.

I pray that you are blessed by the following exchange which I title "An Epistle From A Very Dear Friend"

I Bid You Peace...
Dr.Ken+

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Margarete’s Epistle

What's up doc?? LOL Had to say it. I really am proud of you! Tthat is quite an accomplishment. You should definitely celebrate!! I am sure your family is thrilled for you. I actually like to hear about your work and your opinions on how things are going in that liberal area you are in.....we just shoot em in Texas! LOLYa know, just this weekend, I discovered some things about life. Sounds very philosophical, I know, but admittedly, there were pitchers of Margaritas involved...but, I realized that we are all in this life....just trying to get our way through it. Nobody has some magic pill, or religion, that is just going to solve all our problems and make it all go away. So, we all have to find our way. Another life lesson...if ppl are living in an apt complex at our age or older....most likely they have a story. Last Saturday Bob and I were sitting out on our patio and just chatting...a neighbor came by. She has always been nice, but we REALLY talked and learned a little about each other's story that night. Someone I really never would have thought had THAT big of problems...WOW, was I wrong. My first judgement/impression ....dead wrong. She leaves...another lady that I have barely said hi too...came out and I just started chatting...next thing I know....we are sitting out on the lawn...(LONG story there) and a few other ladies joined us and we were sharing a bottle of wine (or two,.....Margaritas to come) And we somehow got on the subject of church. And, this tatooed lady that I had not talked to much...told me she grew up pentecostal and was trying to find a church here. I was blown away..it hit me then that we have all just got to get through somehow. BTW, it was about three AM at this point....and we were sitting here just having this deep discussion on life...and lo and behold I hear this hissing sound...and I am like what the heck....Then I felt wet....as did the rest of us ....and we realized at that moment the sprinkler system had come on!! We got soaked...so we decided since we were already wet...to go to the pool. Long night, (which is NOT the norm for me) But...I decided that ...ya know we are just all in this together...and we have to muddle thru as best we can. I tell you all of this to set up something I read yesterday....a friend of mine sent me this thing on Revelation and told me to look up this verse...so, I did...and on the next page in my Bible, there was a devotion that caught my eye, Titled "Are You Coping or Conquering?" So, I went on to read the first paragraph.."Life is hard, and most people get throught it simply by coping. If ppl are unhappy in marriage, parenthood, career of friendships, they mostly do the best they can. They Cope. But is this the way God wants believers to live?" Paul once referred to life as a race. The goal is not merely to finish the race, but to WIN,to Conquer. Talk about hitting me square between the eyes! The devotional goes...on and I won't quote it all...but one of the final paragraphs says to read Romans 8:35-39. "and allow these beautiful words of hope to flood your soul. You are an overcomer because of Jesus Christ. "Who is it that overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God." And, 1Jn 5:5 "The one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world""When trials, troubles, persecutions, disasters or attacks come, don't give in to fear. God will supply the strength you need to overcome in your adversity; he gives you the strength to overcome in your adversity. Notice that little word "in." God does not usually deliver you out of adversity; he gives you the strength to overcome in (or through) the adversity."God truly has a sense of humor...because I had decided...ya know, I can just muddle through this on my own...But, alas, we do all have our stories...just like you do ...but you were humbled through the eyes of your mother...and found your way back. I hope you do not forget those roots..and I am sure AHS was good training for you...and I do hope you let people know your story as well. It has merit....most of the time you took the high road...but sometimes you took the detour as well...but God brought you through it! As I know he will me too! As Christians, we all have to start being more real with each other, sharing our stories and becoming authentic and letting our light shine!! (Margaritas optional!!)Anyway, rambled on enough....take care, Doc!!

Margarete

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Hi, Margarete...

Sorry I hadn't gotten back to you before now... It's been a hectic few days around here. Sort of the order of "three weddings and a funeral... and a series of meetings... annual conference... and the like...
Nevertheless, I had not forgotten about you and your latest musings.

I am very impressed (and very proud of you) for your epiphany over a pitcher (or three) of margaritas. It reminds me of the different settings in which Jesus taught his disciples. He (almost) never taught them in a formal worship setting (I think as modern theologians we tend to get it wrong), but rather around the table, or in the back yard around the grill, or even later in the evening sipping a margarita. (I hope that doesn't sound too 'out there', does it?) Or maybe he was walking down a road with a couple of guys... or hanging around a watering hole... it happened, and people just wandered in and out of the unfolding story of Jesus.

Even the disciples were looking for some magic pill to swallow... or some quick fix that would put an end to the problem, but that was not the case... A couple of bottles of wine later, and the disciples were awed by the profound teachings of a few simple words from the master.

Jesus did not preach a sermon... he just turned toward one of the disciples, and would start with "Hey, John... (or Simon, or Andrew...), did you ever consider the lillies of the field?" I can imagine John must have had a quizzical look on his face, "Uh, no... I hadn't..." And Jesus would weave an intricately beautiful picture of a lilly in the field... and then draw a remarkable corollary between that lilly and something in the kingdom of heaven... and then he would wrap it up by applying the imagery to our life. Not preaching... just a conversation between friends.

By the end of the evening (or, in some cases, by the time the sun came up a while later, and they were still parked on the front lawn), it would dawn on the group that they had been in the presence of some profound wisdom. I can imagine them sitting there, and one of them would sum up the experience by saying "Wow, man..."

I enjoyed reading your epistle (I think I'm going to save a copy of your letter to disk and title it "Margarete's Epistle"). The learned lesson that Kingdom Living means more than merely surviving (or muddling through) is a lesson that most of the people we deal with on a daily basis need to learn.

Your point of sharing the title of that devotional was well received. The Question is "are you coping, or conquering?" I believe that Paul said it best... "We are more than conquerors through him who loved us first."
And that is as it should be. If our lives belong to HIM, then our calling must be to do more than just muddle through or merely survive... Our calling is to wake up to the fact that HE calls us from glory unto glory, and to realize that He has already given us the victory in each situation that we encounter.

I am grateful to be your friend, and I am humbled to be your Brother in Christ.

Peace, Love and Blessings...

Doc+